Wednesday, 2 February 2011

The Dead Relationship

Ever had the feeling that a wonderful relationship ran it's full course and has reached the end ? I feel like that about two such relationships in my life. One I managed to bury and move on, it was the most practical and reasonable thing to and I feel proud that I was strong enough to end it when I did. The second one, I could never end. It just went into a limbo and now I am dragging it on. I wish I could end it for once and all. I now know that it was not meant to be but I tried harder and fought harder to make it last. Now all that feels like wasted effort. Strangely enough I can see the familiar traits again. I can see myself getting into a similar relationship which will probably end just as badly. If only I could end it before it becomes just another corpse for me to lug.

14 comments:

ElizaBeth said...

Hi, i love your blog. I just started blogging yesterday, i'm very new at it. LoL i was looking for a way to fallow you but i don't see the botton anywhere, am i missing something, or is there another way to do it?

paulsifer42 said...

All relationships teach us something though. As a guy who has ended some long ones, I've learned (over time) to keep the good and leave behind the bad. I promies, things can and will get better.

Lizzy said...

I'm in a similar position. Except that I really, really want to end the friendship already. I hate it so much I want to cry! :'( I hope we both come out alive.

CD said...

@Elizabeth: Tx a ton.. I am not sure but I believe you should be able to follow my blog easily.. I have no special settings for that.

@paul: I am trying hard .. I think life is a good filter that ways !!

@Liz: Since I am in a similar place I feel I can relate .. but whenever a relationship brings more tears than anything you should step back... I still maintain a dead one .. but I have emotionally detached myself from the person. Good luck to you !

LearningByReading said...

Oh yes that happened in my last relationship which seemed to start so strong and then end with a big thud... time heals

Zander C.J. Campbell said...
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Anonymous said...

Seems like everybody has some baggage of one type or another that they're toting around. I'm no exception. I feel your pain. Good luck!

Cnuggy said...

Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes .... I am in one of those relationships and just a few days ago decided to not let it be for a day longer ... its been hard but fuck do I feel great. Deep down you know what makes you happy ... focus on that, keep that as a front runner - cuz when your feelin your fly-est - you'll meet some one that is equally as wicked!

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dontleaveme said...

aw.. good luck! :/
nice blog

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My World! said...

True state of a broken heart's mind...cheers!